Time heals all wounds.
Over time you can change the colour of your hair, lose weight, gain weight, have a baby, get a better job, get married, break up with someone, lose a great friend, move out of home, meet someone that will change your perspective.
Sure - but can it change you?! Everyone would like to think that they're "better" after an amount of time, but I'm believing now that the only thing that changes is the surface level. Not that we can't learn and grow, but as a majority, generalised view......... nothing's changed. Except your fashion sense in the last 5 years. (Plaid = not in)
Maybe we're lost in translation. In the society we're in now - there are so many avenues for self expression and not only is it self-freeing, but it is WELCOMED and if you *DONT* express yourself... it might appear if you have NFI what you're doing. Self expression should be teamed with some azure coloured jeans and a white tee - it's the best outfit you'll have this decade.
So what happens when you run into your past? um put the gear in reverse and run over it again??? No...if only it was that easy. The past is great.. well.......except for that unrelenting feeling that you've made a mistake. But don't be scared, its no time for that. With a lifetime's preparation - don't give up just yet. The past is better left as the past; embrace it, enjoy it. But you can never go back. What's done is done. No matter what you think now.
Without a doubt, whatever has happened to us before, we can't erase, unless you live in denial. but even that vacation gets tiring. The future, if not present will most likely suffer because of your previous experiences.. It's unfair - but isn't that why the person you're with now is here to be with you? To put a band aid over your hurt? Kiss the boo boo's away??
Let them.
Don't push away someone who's looking you in the eye. and has the guts to do it
How often are you going to come across someone like that? Not often. But you know better right? It's going to end the same way? You don't have time for it... but what you're actually saying is "I dont have time for you, i dont have time to let myself be hurt again. so dont expect SHIT from me"
Even you know that you'll lose out. Because one day the person who's meant for you right now, will be walking away with someone else. And they won't stop to turn around for you, again. So go ahead, no regrets. No fears. Forgive the past but MOVE FORWARD, .....Don't write something off until it's happened.
Don't give up so easily. Someone, somewhere is waiting for you. Don't waste time deciding if you should, don't waste time without doing what you want. Waste time doing WHO YOU WANT! If you're living in the dark, then turn on the light & you'll know.
