Tuesday, May 19, 2009

The Good, the bad & the ego

I'm starting to see an emerging pattern. Okay, not starting but decided i have enough 'evidentiary support' to submit a case......thats right

e·go·ma·ni·a
n. Obsessive preoccupation with the self.

To the untrained soul, eye, mind or even ego, we can view people that have their head up their ass.
Luckily I've never been on the other side of this (to my knowledge!) but it seems there are people that take a sign that if you ask how they are going or send them two messages in one day, you must be mentally in love with them. It's kind of disturbing that society doesn't live in the calmer ways of talking to everybody and "how ya goin?" as the common way of life (if you're from Ringwood, Parkmore or Northcote areas..you'll understand) that people always read the wrong way into it. ALWAYS.

Although its mainly my guy friends that sook and complain about girls crazy over them, I try and point out how they aren't that bad. . . and that the man behaved in a certain way, to completely mislead someone. So they made a mistake, big deal. Everyone does. whats effing wrong with your ego?! Let it go! lol I speak on behalf of everyone, saying I really cant stand to her one more crap-ola reason for some "crazy" girl/exgf/2nd cousin/step sister/co-worker/porn star you once dated that you "dont have feelings for". And that she's a loony tune.

I DONT CARE!

It's about to do my block in. If you're hurting or someone's rubbed you the wrong way then SURE tell me, or any other woman for that matter. But on behalf of us all with a VJ, we don't want to hear it. It's all too easy to go out there and get laid. Or action. Or flirt with somene. But it takes guts, a bit of work, sense of humour & reality. Not to mention humanity, to make someone stay. You should only be proud and boastful then.

If not, tuck your ego away and save it for a rainy day.